Seasons of Life: The Day When i Lost My Organizer Book

I am so starving just now and i ate like i never eat before..haha..now im full - eat maggie mee only..haha..

ok as i promise in my post previously, i will blog about one of my best GF who just got maaried recently. this was my second time coordinating a wedding (church wedding + wedding reception)..well same goes to the previous wedding that i coordinate, her church wedding ceremony runs exactly the same as before, for this reasons i felt a little relax from the very beginning when she asked me to coordinate for her big day. planning goes well as we communicate regularly via hp, email & fb. we finally manage to get the actual day event flow completed 4 weeks before the big day. wow. things seems to be safe and sounds. and as for her, she is doing fine according to her, just for your info she's working in KK and im staying in Miri atm. =)

Some tips, (1) communication part is very important when coordinating a wedding. most importantly the brides n grooms know exactly what they want, from then on, the wed co. will b able to work things out. well, they may not even give you the details of it but at least they can give you the big picture of their expectation. (2) the people involves need to be inform and brief. macam expert!! haha just want to share a little of what i've experience :p ..to those who plans to get marry, (3)get someone or your friend to help you to coordinate and do the planning together/brainstorm, so that you'll be less headache & you can enjoy your precious day the most. (4) Let your partner get involve in the preparation, my friend did that too =) super baik punya hubby ba tu..hehe..(5) Not forget to mention, family meeting or family gathering. organize a family gathering and spell out to them the planning you have. get their opinion as well. (6) Checklist. thanks to the internet. people get the checklist guide available and you'll be less headache on keeping track with your progress.

After saying all this, i have to admit that it's easy to say things then to do it. (7) keep this i mind, what you want and dreams on your actual wedding day may not always turn the way you plan it. (8) so dont be discourage or feel sad. it happens to many people. just ask around, they'll give you similar answer. =)

These are some tendencies occasions that may happen during your actual day, some people get weird and being aggressive, people came late, people suddenly MIA - missing in action, you yourself got worried over nothing, decoration not up to your expectation, last minute changes on plans due to something, weather upset and the list continues...worse still if the brides or groom ran away on the actual day..haha..find the right one is the answer to this..JK. some people say, plan early such as a year ahead but it is hard to say. my sis got engaged after 3 months officially in her relationship and 3 months later she got married. this was our(family) first wedding to be organize and plan. we know nothing since we never directly involves in any wedding preparation before. our knowledge about wedding is too shallow and that's my first encounter with things as these. you can imagine how kasian it was but thank God that she's happily married with 3 lovely kids. SWEETTTTTTTTT.....

so yeah, what i'm trying to say is. (9) be happy and enjoy your wedding day. (10) pray and surrender it all to God. everything happen for a reasons. remember that =) . And on your actual day (11) give your very best/sweet smile and your best posture in all that you do coz the camera is now focusing on you and you doesn't want to look funny/ugly/sad in your photo.the camera will indeed capture all the good moments you had and to support this fact you need to (12) get a good photographer ...haha...

and for those who will be coordinating the wedding, (13) give your best shoot in all you do and plan like it was your own wedding - almost like your own - ..if its yours then probably you will change the whole thing and follow your own rules..thats wrong :p ..haha..and the best gift ever you'll receive is the joy of seeing your best gf enjoying her every moment of wedding. and don't forget to (14) get an assistant too!! so that you'll not be over loaded with tasks. one more thing - for the bride - is to (15) inform all your friends especially the close one to attend your big day. it made a huge difference with their presence. the earlier you inform them the better it is. you will definitely enjoy the group photo and the fellowship with them. i know for some people, their parent's friends is more than the brides and grooms it self but it doesn't matter (its a good sign of receiving more 'red-packet' from the elder..haha..) nah, make sure that you (16) allocate some time to spend with your gf or bf (for the groom)..

This would not be complete without this one - On the cost wise, all that i can say is (17) be wise, (18) stick on your budget, (19) cut the unnecessarily, (20) be a little 'thick-face' to re-use anything (i mean it) that you can borrow from your friends or relatives but make sure you modify/adjust a little :p and (21) trust God that He will provides the rest.. =)

Fuh, what a long write huh..got tips some more :p ..i should be charging you on this JK..haha.. ba, hope you enjoy the reading and now let us all embrace the moments together through the photos (not organized ;p) below..

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Be blessed!! =)

p/s - i lost my organizer book the day before the wedding